August 10, 2005

Dear Friends,

This letter just mysteriously appeared in my inbox and I
like it cause I've finally started dating again so here it is:

A Few Short Words That Will Immediately
Generate Massive Attraction In Women...

Important Note: Read this newsletter in its
entirety because you're going to learn an
attraction secret that less than one
percent of the world's male population
knows about!

The other day I was talking to a buddy of
mine, a real rock star at attracting women,
about, of all things, Bill Gates. We were
discussing how Gates's financial problems
are vastly different from the average
person. Bill spends his days fretting over
ways to either make more money or sustain
the money he has, while most people concern
themselves with making money in the first
place. The man lives in a completely
different reality from most of us. As we
were chatting about Mr. Microsoft,
something dawned on us...

When it comes to succeeding with women, we
realized, we live in a very different
reality from most men. In our reality,
generating attraction in women is as easy
as taking a crap - little effort, yet
feels great! The skills and tools for
generating attraction are so ingrained in
us that when interacting with gorgeous
women, there's not even an iota of hemming
and hawing over how to attract them. Our
focus, instead, is on: using the
attraction we already know we can
generate in them to get our intended
outcome. If there's a woman we're
interested in, for example, we don't
stand there stiff and stupefied, like a
dear caught in headlights, wondering: "How
in the world are we going to attract her?"
We know, if we just chat with her for a few
minutes, it's inevitable that she'll feel
attraction toward us. That's why our focus
is entirely on, even if we haven't yet said
a word to her, using the attraction we
already know we can generate in her to get
our intended outcome.

But this isn't the reality of most men.
"What to do in the wake of a woman feeling
attraction toward you?" is a thought never
crossing the minds of many a man - and
rightfully so...because most can't even
generate attraction inside women in the
first place.

A few nights ago, for example, I was at a
little bar down the street from my house.
My friend and I watched a forty-something
year-old distinguished looking business man
play the big passive bottom to the verbal
gang bang of two twenty-one year old
looking, sponge-brained rhymes-with-witches.
The poor bastard attempted to attract these
women the only ways he knew how: buying them
drinks, giving them lots of compliments,
and, worst of all, asking them if they
thought his clothes are cool. Funny enough,
the more he did these things, the crueler
the girls acted toward him. This man was a
walking, talking attraction death sentence.

Can you relate? Have you ever felt, every
attempt to attract a woman was actually
turning her off? Or have you experienced
the frustration of trying to figure out
why a woman was more attracted to your
friend than you? Or maybe you've brooded:
Attracting women is as difficult as a
blind man trying to find a bobby pin on an
open football field. I dunno?

Each scenario represents the reality of not
knowing how to attract women. A reality I
personally overstayed my welcome. I,
however, have moved far away from this
reality and now reside in a place where
attracting women is cake.

I'm going to share something with you only
known, for the most part, by people living
in a reality where attracting women is as
easy as turning on a light switch. This is
something I don't think I've ever talked
about in a newsletter...and might never
again. If you've read my book, you'll know
what this is. If you've gone out and
experimented with it, there's a good chance
you understand the power behind it.

Before I get into this I'm going to review
some attraction basics.

Realize this: Most women march through life
to the rhythms of some drum most men will
never hear. My job is to get you to hear
those rhythms, so, you can start
experiencing massive success with women.
Attraction is neither how a woman judges
you nor what she prefers. Women prefer
men who are tall and dark and lumbered
with boa constrictor sized wieners.
Think of the guys featured in Calvin
Klein, Guess, and Abercrombie catalogues.
That's what women prefer! This probably
isn't you, and certainly isn't me. But
that's okay...because...the men women
prefer and the men they feel attraction
for are as similar as apples are to
oranges. Attraction has very little to
with preference. Attraction, instead, is
the emotion of a woman wanting and
reaching and chasing for more of a man.

This is why you hear many a woman talking
about her experiences of feeling attraction
toward men whom she finds ugly or as not
filling the quota for what she considers
to be her type. When you've mastered the
mechanisms behind generating attraction,
what a woman physically thinks of you will
be the least of your concerns.

One of the most effective ways I've found
for generating massive amounts of
attraction in women, emotionally compelling
them to want and reach and chase for more
of you, is what I call "Tension Loops." The
best part of using Tension Loops is that
they generate heaps of attraction in
women...regardless of your current looks,
social status, or bank account.

A Tension Loop is when you do something to
create unresolved emotional tension inside
a woman, increase it, release it by
bringing closure to it, and then spark it
all over again. This will keep her feeling
the emotion of wanting and reaching and
chasing for more of you.

Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to
keep women enraptured in their fictitious
dramas for months - sometimes years! The
structure is always the same. The soap
starts off with some form of conflict or
drama, sparking unresolved emotional
tension. Emotional tension increases up
until the point of the climax. The
tension, then, is released by bringing
some resolution to the conflict or
drama. And, finally, the show ends by
sparking the tension all over again,
compelling women to tune in for next
week's show.

Mastering the Tension Loop will give you
the kind of power over women that, at
first, might scare you. But if you're
thinking that this is what I wanted to
share with you, you're wrong.

So keep reading...

In a minute, you're going to learn a
special type of Tension Loop I call
"Push/Pull." If you aren't comfortable
with the idea of having the power to
generate attraction inside the women you
desire, regardless of what they think of
you, you might want to stop reading now!

What I'm about to reveal is Jedi mind
*shit*. We're talking Yoda power! And you
don't have to become Darth Vader to reap
the benefits of Push/Pull. Every guy I've
come into contact with, who is good with
women, uses some form of Push/Pull.

Push/Pull is whenever you emotionally push
a woman away from you...and, then,
emotionally pull her back in. Each Push
creates an emotional space for each Pull.
To get a sense of what I'm getting at,
think, for example, of your favorite junk
food. What if you went on a strict diet for
several weeks, depriving yourself of giving
in to your urge to eat your favorite food?
What would it be like to finally give in to
your urge and indulge? I'm willing to bet
it would be more intense than if you
hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes?

Many women are natural Push/Pull artists.
Over the years I've heard dozens of stories
from hapless men about women using
Push/Pull to pick them up by the scruff of
their proverbial neck, slamming their
bodies with back-and-forth and side-to-side
motions into the ground. My all time
favorite story is the one about the
gorgeous girl sleeping with a guy and
then, after sex, putting his ego on
steroids by telling him, "You're the
best lover I've ever had." Things, then,
alas, take a self-esteem crushing turn for
the worse when she undermines her praise
with: "Actually, you're the fourth best
lover I've ever had." The poor bastard is
crushed and he is, as if he were a little
worker bee, struggling to move up to the
number three slot.

We can use these psychological mechanisms
without being an A-hole or a Jerk. The key
is to make it playful and funny. Your
intention should never be to hurt a woman.
Your goal is to only mess with her a bit.
Do this and women will find you charming
and attractive.

Here's an example of Push/Pull
I've used probably over a
thousand times...

At some point while interacting with
a woman I might take her hand and
praise, "You have the most amazing
smile I've seen tonight...It makes me
feel so happy inside!" She'll usually
respond with, "Thank you!" Then I'll
count the fingers on my other hand
and say, "You know what: actually
there were four other girls with
really amazing smiles tonight as
well. Out of them, you have the
fourth best smile. I'm going to call
you number four." And then I'll push
away her hand. More often than not,
women demand, "No!!! I want to be
number one!" I'll usually retort
with, "Alright, I'll promote you to
number three for being feisty."

Do women find this derisive and mean? Not
at all (Note: once in while you'll
encounter a psychologically damaged woman
who doesn't think this is cute. She is the
exception and not the rule. My advice: run
away from these types of women, quickly).
Most women find this funny, charming, and
playful. More importantly, it generates
attraction: the emotion of wanting and
reaching and chasing for more of you.

Push/Pull is the creme de la creme of
attraction tools. Master Push/Pull and
you'll leave women no choice but to feel
attraction toward you...even if they're
repulsed by your physical appearance.
Realize that this is a newsletter and I'm
only scratching the surface of Push/Pull.
In my book, you'll learn six types of
Push/Pull: Intentional Undermining,
Guilty Conscience, Emotional
Rollercoaster, Revealing & Concealing,
and Good Cop/ Bad Cop. You'll discover
body language techniques for using
Push/Pull and read about a powerful
Push/Pull secret for getting physical
with a woman...even if she tells you,
she's not attracted to you. My book is
the only place on the planet where you'll
learn about Push/Pull. This, however,
only scratches the surface of what you'll
gain from my attraction guide. It's a
complete education on attracting women,
giving you the tools to transform yourself
into the kind of man women feel attraction
toward. Just think what it will be like to
finally have the skills and confidence to
plop your butt in the driver's seat while
interacting with women, giving you the
power and choice to take your interactions
with them in the direction you want. Start
getting this area of your life taken care
of right now by downloading my book,
or check out the details of my course.

Your Loyal Dating Coach,

Swinggcat "Dr. of Attraction"

I think that's pretty cool and it's the first
unsolicited email to be a welcome surprise so
I guess now it's time to experiment...

Happy hunting and good luck!

Eternally Yours,

Avniel